No commitment
No fighting
No flowers
No clothed spooning
No shared breakfasts
No indoor dates or playing house.
No lying
No jealousy
No bareback. Condoms people!
No potential good guys. If you could see yourself dating him, he's not the occasional rump for you.
No expectations or assumptions.
Be Brutally Honest. Say exactly what you feel the set up should be. This way everyone is on the same page.
No dates or weird "drinks" before the deed.
No baby voices
No "I miss you"... EVER
No emoticons
No text messges longer then - when, where "come over" and "I wanna fck"
No open bathroom doors
No holding hands in public
No body part nicknames
No mix tapes...
No sleeping over anyone's place
No hanging out more than once in the same week
No sending each other text messages the next day
No stashing clothes or leaving stuff behind
No lying to yourself ... Your using each other for one thing and one thing only. Remember these things are not built to last. They burn but burn out fast. If you feel your Grinch heart growing .. speak to him and/or run
Lastly.. Outside cheesy romantic comedies I haven't seen FWB turn into long term relationships but life isn't in black and white. Shit happens. Being true to yourself is really important. If your not feeling very "Grinch" about your sex these days, back away. These kind of relationships don't work for everyone with anybody. If you feel your heart turn left open up the conversation. Granted because of the rules above you may be talking to a brick wall but ya never know.
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